Hello my dear readers, Audrey’s back with a brand hew post ! 🌸
Today I’m going to discuss some negatively charged issue, but I wanted to write this post in a more positive or optimistic way.
Every now and then we meet new people. Some of them are honest, but many of them are likely to be fake. They pretend to be our best friends, but then they will break your heart and stab you right into your back with a smile.
Yup, best friends may break hearts. Let me tell you one story. 🌸
When I came at my high school as a freshman (or should I say freshwoman ? #Girlpower 🌸) I didn’t know anyone. 33 new faces, 33 new souls. But after a week I found my first realistic friend. I don’t intend on using her real name, so I’ll call her Toxicity. (You’ll soon find out why.)
After becoming her best friend, I fell in love with the most attractive and handsome man in our class. He is tall, he plays basketball, when he smiles I feel the urge to faint, and I was in love. She was trying to help me in dating him, but after a few unhappy attents, she decided to change the rules. This Toxicity tried to dissuade me of loving him, but I was too blind to do so. So we finally started dating, and our relationship is probably (and hopefully) everlasting. 🌸
Toxicity fell in love too, with a (probably schizophrenic) boy from other city. I was really happy that she found a love. But after a year, things changed. He started “crying” that he’s poor, and Toxicity did everything just to help him out of that poverty. He has been totally sponging her for three months, so my honest self told her that it doesn’t look good.
She was mad, she was hurt, and I understood. But I had my opinion, and I let things be. They broke up three weeks after our argument, and she was too broken. Every single day I was challenged by an enormously awful bus trip to her village and back, but I loved her as my sister. 🌸
After being with two other boys, the third one became her present relationship. He was just procured by her neighbour, and this Baby Whisker (me and my closest friends call him this, because he has that first moustache, that he’ll probably never shave. Gross, really.)
said, that he likes he only because of her look.
We ended up our friendship, because I found out, that she tells everyone about my private problems, about my depressions, and about every single word I told. She became very jealous, she didn’t accept my success, and destroyed everything we had. I couldn’t stand it, so I left.
She was (and still is) the worst liar, hater and faker I’ve ever known. She has hurted me in every single way a person may do. But anyways, I would accept even the word “Sorry”, and I would be melted as a butter. 🌸
But, back to the point. How I deal with these people ?
🌸 IGNORE THEM
- This first rule is the most important. You need to show them you don’t care about them anymore, and that the door back to you are closed.
🌸 BE YOURSELF
- Don’t act like you are hurt. Just pick your head up, breathe, and show that you are over it. Even if it is unbelievably hard, you can not fail because of one person.
🌸 LISTEN BUT DON’T EVEN DARE TO TRUST AGAIN
- Once they lost your trust, don’t be stupid enough to trust them again. You are unique and original, and you are too precious to be betrayed.
I’m really glad, that you made it to this line. Hopefully you enjoyed this post. Move these people to trash, and don’t apologize for them. They did mistakes, they need to be sorry.
I love you all,
🌸🌸 Audrey 🌸🌸